Women really do get a rough deal when it comes to pain. We live with the myth that because women experience pain in childbirth and (often) with periods of course women can ‘deal with it.’
Until recently women and female animals haven’t been included in pain research, and guess what? Women and female animals don’t have the same biological system for processing nociception.
Men are told ‘don’t be a girl’ about their pain.
Women are told they ‘look too good’ to be experiencing pain.
Women don’t get taken seriously when they ask for help with their pain – and get given more psychological labels and help instead of appropriate investigations and effective analgesia.
I’ve just reviewed a whole heap of research papers looking at the differences between men and women, boys and girls and pain. It doesn’t make for happy reading, and even though I was fully aware of the disparity I have been thunderstruck at how pervasive pain in women is dismissed.
Let’s look at some facts for women in New Zealand.

This survey asks the question: Do you have chronic pain that is present almost every day, but the intensity of the pain may vary, and has lasted, or is expected to last, more than six months. This includes chronic pain that is reduced by treatment?
By comparison, Asthma (diagnosed and treated) – 11.4%; Diabetes – 5.2%; Chronic Pain – 22.6%
BUT there is NO national priority for chronic pain, and more women than men report it.
Want more? What’s the major area of pain for women in Aotearoa? According to the Global Burden of Disease, the most significant contributor to years lived with disability for women in New Zealand is – no, not endometriosis, not menstrual pain, but low back pain, followed by migraine. We hear a lot about endometriosis, but rather less about the overall problem of pain for women.

https://vizhub.healthdata.org/gbd-compare/
In reviewing international data I came across this study looking at 11,000 patient records, and evaluating the differences in reported pain intensity between men and women receiving care for the same diagnoses (Ruau et al., 2012).

This was gobsmacking to me. We KNOW that women are more likely to develop chronic pain (many of the studies show a 2:1 prevalence for women with chronic pain – see Fitzcharles et al., 2021) – but are clinicians aware that women report higher pain intensity, lower pain threshold and lower pain tolerance than men in acute pain? For an excellent review of sex differences in neurobiology, take a look at this paper by Presto and colleagues (2022).
But wait, sadly there’s more.
When women seek help for their pain, from childhood their pain is minimised and managed less assertively than men. Here are some examples from my recent wandering through the literature.
Girls are thought to be experiencing less pain than boys…
Earp et al., (2019) replicated a previous study showing that when clinicians were asked to watch a video and rate how much pain a child was experiencing when having a fingerprick blood test. The child’s gender was considered ‘ambiguous’ (so not easily identified as either a boy or a girl) but the participants were told either a boy’s name or a girl’s name, and asked to rate the pain. There were a whole bunch of other questions asked, but I’ll cut to the chase. No, Virginia, your pain is not as bad as Larry’s, and the gender of the observer was irrelevant. The authors said: “if the belief that boys tend to display less pain than girls is what is driving the relevant inferential process—that is, that this particular “boy” must really be in pain—then controlling for that belief should make the between-subjects difference in pain sensation ratings diminish or disappear. Indeed, this is what we find.”
Naamany and colleagues (2019) found that women attending the emergency department with acute renal colic (nasty pain for sure) reported higher pain intensity BUT men were given analgesics more frequently including opioids and more drugs overall than women.
Men reporting cardiovascular-related chest pain were 2.5 times more likely to be referred to a cardiologist than women….(Liaudat et al., 2018).
AND I wasn’t aware that one in three women quit doing daily activities because of menstrual symptoms, but 50% of them never mention this to family/friends or seek healthcare (Schoep et al., 2019).
Folks, it doesn’t get any better and actually gets a whole lot worse when we’re talking about chronic pain…
Samulowitz and colleagues (2018) carried out an exhaustive review of gender disparity in pain literature. It’s well worth a read (but keep the tissues handy, and watch your blood pressure if you are of ‘gentle disposition’). Essentially the findings show that women are actually biologically more sensitive to nociception, are more willing to report pain and apparently it’s more socially acceptable for women to be experiencing pain. BUT women are assigned ‘psychological’ rather than somatic causes for their pain, struggle for legitimacy, have their appearance scrutinized (‘you look too well to be in pain’), are prescribed less and when given analgesia are given less effective pain relief, fewer opioids but more antidepressants (though that could be because women are 2:1 more likely to have nociplastic pains), and give more mental health referrals instead of active rehabilitation. Even the recommendations for rehabilitation differ depending on gender (Wiklund et al., 2016).
Frankly, it’s outrageous.
It sucks to find that women’s pain continues to be trivialised, and women get given poorer treatment. We must change this because, duh, it’s a fundamental human right to be given access to pain management. It’s also a fundamental right to be treated with the same respect and diligence irrespective of your sex or gender. The flow-on effects of ineffective, inappropriate and inadequate pain management on women are profound.
Begin by getting loud about this. Look at your own assumptions. Be willing to question your treatment if you’re a woman. Be willing to review your practice, both men and women.
Earp, B. D., Monrad, J. T., LaFrance, M., Bargh, J. A., Cohen, L. L., & Richeson, J. A. (2019). Featured Article: Gender Bias in Pediatric Pain Assessment. Journal of Pediatric Psychology, 44(4), 403-414. https://doi.org/10.1093/jpepsy/jsy104
Fitzcharles, M.-A., Cohen, S. P., Clauw, D. J., Littlejohn, G., Usui, C., & Häuser, W. (2021). Nociplastic pain: towards an understanding of prevalent pain conditions. The Lancet, 397(10289), 2098-2110. https://doi.org/10.1016/s0140-6736(21)00392-5
Clerc Liaudat, C., Vaucher, P., De Francesco, T., Jaunin-Stalder, N., Herzig, L., Verdon, F., Favrat, B., Locatelli, I., & Clair, C. (2018). Sex/gender bias in the management of chest pain in ambulatory care. Womens Health (Lond), 14, 1745506518805641. https://doi.org/10.1177/1745506518805641
Naamany, E., Reis, D., Zuker-Herman, R., Drescher, M., Glezerman, M., & Shiber, S. (2019). Is There Gender Discrimination in Acute Renal Colic Pain Management? A Retrospective Analysis in an Emergency Department Setting. Pain Management Nursing, 20(6), 633-638. https://doi.org/https://doi.org/10.1016/j.pmn.2019.03.004
Presto, P., Mazzitelli, M., Junell, R., Griffin, Z., & Neugebauer, V. (2022). Sex differences in pain along the neuraxis. Neuropharmacology, 210, 109030. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.neuropharm.2022.109030
Ruau, D., Liu, L. Y., Clark, J. D., Angst, M. S., & Butte, A. J. (2012). Sex differences in reported pain across 11,000 patients captured in electronic medical records. Journal of Pain, 13(3), 228-234. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jpain.2011.11.002
Samulowitz, A., Gremyr, I., Eriksson, E., & Hensing, G. (2018). “Brave Men” and “Emotional Women”: A Theory-Guided Literature Review on Gender Bias in Health Care and Gendered Norms towards Patients with Chronic Pain. Pain Research and Management, 2018. https://doi.org/https://doi.org/10.1155/2018/6358624
Schoep, M. E., Nieboer, T. E., van der Zanden, M., Braat, D. D. M., & Nap, A. W. (2019). The impact of menstrual symptoms on everyday life: a survey among 42,879 women. American Journal of Obstetrics & Gynecology, 220(6), 569 e561-569 e567. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.ajog.2019.02.048
Wiklund, M., Fjellman-Wiklund, A., Stalnacke, B. M., Hammarstrom, A., & Lehti, A. (2016). Access to rehabilitation: patient perceptions of inequalities in access to specialty pain rehabilitation from a gender and intersectional perspective. Glob Health Action, 9, 31542. https://doi.org/10.3402/gha.v9.31542